Ungodly Soul Ties.

Ungodly Soul Ties.
Soul ties through immoral sexual activity.
“Don’t you know that your bodies are the members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of a harlot? God forbid. What? Don’t you know that he, which is joined to a harlot, is one body? For two, says He, shall be one flesh.” (1 Cor 6:15-16)
God’s plan for a man and a woman is not at all like that of the world. First, He would have them come together and bond in the area of the spirit. Over time, as they get to know one another, a bonding of the mind and emotions would occur. Then, only after solemn vows of commitment in marriage, would any bonding of the body be permissible. The world has it backwards. Generally, the first thing to bond is the body through sexual indulgences of various degrees. Then, due to strong physical attraction, a couple will get married (if they even do that at all .After a while, they come to know one another in their soul, mind and emotions. That’s when they begin to discover that they’re really not so compatible after all. The woman discovers that her attractive husband has an abusive, violent side. The man finds that the sweet lady he married is full of insecurity and very controlling. King Solomon loved many strange women.. concerning which the Lord said, you shall not go in to them, neither shall they come in to you: for they will turn away your heart after their gods: Solomon clave to these in love.” (Kings. 11:1-2 ,“Dinah the daughter of Leah went out to see the daughters of the land. When Shechem saw her, he took her, lay with her and defiled her. And his soul clave to Dinah, and he loved the damsel, and spoke kindly to her.” (Gen 34:1-3) .
Ungodly soul ties between parents and children.
In spite of their best efforts, parents can be soul tied to their kids in unhealthy ways. Due to their own insecurities, parents can develop soul ties of indifference, permissiveness, idolatry, compromise and control (and in many other areas). Here are some of the signs and results of ungodly soul ties between parents and their children. Signs of Unhealthy or Absent Parent/Child Bonding Periodically swinging from angry correction to guilt. Manipulative, dishonest in dealings with their child. Unreasonably controlling. Resistant to counsel concerning their child rearing. Defending the child when others speak of his/her failings or shortcomings. manipulating and control, by a meddlesome parent especially in relationships and marriages.God’s balance can be seen in nature. As a piece of fruit ripens, so does the tie that connects it to the tree. If you try to remove an apple while it’s still green, you’ll need to twist and pull to snap it loose? However, when the apple is fully ripe, it will fall off with just the slightest tug. So it should be with children. The dependence that was so essential in the early years needs to gradually give way to a parent-to-child respect that will enable them to leave the nest on their own when it’s time. Tendency to yield to the child’s manipulation, thus making consistent discipline difficult. Allowing the child to dictate and control the parent’s activities and relationships. At this point, the soul tie between the parent and child has become quite unhealthy. Results of Unhealthy or Absent Parent / Child Bonding Unhealthy (or absent) parent / child soul ties can produce lifelong insecurities in the child. This invariably results in their pursuing unhealthy relationships with others of similar personality weaknesses. At the same time, when a healthy bonding is lacking, a child may spend the rest of his or her life looking to have it fulfilled.
This is one reason why a woman will end up marrying a man who displays the same abusive tendencies as her dad. Because she never properly bonded with her father, she finds herself, often without realizing it, attracted to men like her father. Why? Because she’s trying to `close the gap’ in her soul caused by the lack of a healthy paternal soul tie. She’s still trying to find his love. When a boy is not properly bonded with his father or with his mother, a similar thing happens. He’ll find himself bouncing from relationship to relationship, ever seeking the deep bonding he lacked as a child. This is one of the reasons divorce is so rampant today. The `grown up child’ is trying to find the soul tie that never properly formed in the rearing years.
Ungodly frienship soul ties.
Go from the presence of a foolish man, when you perceive not in him the lips of knowledge.” (Prov. 14:7) Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a furious man do not go: otherwise you’ll learn his ways and get a snare to your soul.”
(Prov. 22:24-25) “(2 Cor. 6:14-18 “Be not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? What communion has light with darkness? We are clearly asked in scripture to be wise in our relationships. We’re told to avoid close associations with those that are angry, with those acting foolishly and with those that are unbelievers. Understand that we’re not prohibited here from having any relationship with such persons. Rather, it’s just that such relationships should not be able to form unhealthy soul ties where one’s witness and walk with the Lord is Compromised.
To bond with someone emotionally or spiritually who is unrepentantly angry, or someone who is given over to a vice, can be extremely dangerous. The evil spirits at work in them can then pass through the soul tie to affect you. The result would be that you might find yourself at some point justifying and rationalizing their actions and eventually joining them. Birds of a feather tend to flock together, we’re told. How then should you relate to such persons? Simply keep your discernment tuned in when you’re around them so that if there’s any transferring of spirits, it will be the Holy Spirit from you rather than an unclean spirit from them. One way these principles are often compromised is in the area of “missionary friendship”. That’s where a believer gets romantically involved with an unbeliever and justifies it on the basis that they are helping that person “come to the Lord”. Such reasoning is extremely faulty.
Soul tie with the demonic.
Any and all involvement with idolatry , Witchcraft or the occult will result in soul ties with evil spirits. That’s because such involvement is in direct opposition to the first commandment, “Thou shall not have any gods before me. (Exodus 20:3-5) “Cleave unto the Lord as you have done this day…. take good heed that you love the Lord your God. Else if you do turn back and cleave unto these ungodly nations…then know that the Lord will no more drive them out; but they will be snares and traps to you, scourges in your sides and thorns in your eyes, until you perish from off this good land which the Lord has given you.” (Jer 23:8-13)
The prophet plainly warns Israel here that if they “cleave” to the demonic nations around them instead of “cleaving” to God, then the Lord will let them reap what they sow! Because Satan is the father of all liars, lying can also result in soul ties with demons (see John 8:44).
Once you choose to lie to another or lie to yourself, you have, in effect, come into agreement with Satan. That, in turn, opens you to suggestions and deceptions of wicked spirits. Also, when you refuse to forgive someone you soul tie with a demon. Because when you refuse to forgive, God will not forgive you. What He will do is deliver you to the tormentors until you do forgive (see Matt 6:15 and 18:35).
If you find yourself even now in agreement with Satan because of lying, dishonesty, idolatry or unforgiveness, then quickly repent. The Lord will then grant you the grace to disentangle yourself from the bonds of the demonic.
Soul ties with the dead.
David covered his face and cried with a loud voice, “O my son Absalom, O Absalom, my son, my son!” And Joab came into the house, and said to the king, “You have shamed this day the faces of all your servants…for I perceive that if Absalom had lived, and we all had died, then it would have pleased you well.” (2 Sam 19:4-6)
King David had an unhealthy soul tie with his son, Absalom, who rebelled against him and contributed to the deaths of thousands. David’s tie was undoubtedly rooted in guilt, for in many ways he had failed in his son’s rearing. The result being that after Absalom was killed and his armies routed, David shamed his own armies by pining away.
As strange as it may seem, it is possible to be soul tied to the dead. The Biblical prescription for mourning was to be seven to thirty (see Genesis 50:10 and Deut 34:8). Then you were to put your grief behind you and go on. God knew that excessive and lasting grief would only open one’s soul to heaviness, gloom and despair.
We’ve all heard stories of a heartbroken parent who, after a child’s death, keeps his room exactly like it was for many years. Such excessive grief brings heaviness and gloom to others in the house. It’s as if the spirit of death were invited to remain.This is the same reasons people see dead relations in their dream with massages for the living but this is the lie of the devil . These dreams are manipulated by Familiar Spirits.
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By: Emmanuel and Blessing Agbo.